What's the attraction with a bunch of jobless guys?

I think my Ex-boy friend is seriously bored. Yes though we break-up, we are still friends, after all we grown-up together. Beginning of last year he met this guy, whom he became close friends with. That began the first "toxic relationship". And as predicted within a short time, that ended.

Shortly after that, he met another group of guys, with the same interest as him. They were just as bad as the first. The first guy was just too narcissistic. This other group is just plain annoying. A group of about 6 guys, spent most of their time playing computer games. Half of them are not even working! He'll spend half the Sunday with them, talking etc....  I was counting the moments till something happen. What's the attraction with a bunch of jobless guys? And why do I even care?
My friends told me he miss me !

Merry Christmas to Everyone !!!!

A New Earth Awakening to Your Life's Purpose by Eckhart Tolle

A friend gave me a book, A New Earth  Awakening to Your Life's Purpose by a weird looking guy named Eckhard Tolle. Ok I'm sure you'll heard of him as he's HUGE in the spiritual business of self help.

In summary he said we are governed by an inner voice. This voice is constantly talking non-stop, from the moment we wake up till we sleep at night. Most of the stuff is negative, repetitive & centers on oneself. It also mostly judge & label everything, even our own actions & intentions. According to him, this inner narrator is what is commonly known as the EGO. He claimed that we fail to recognize our thoughts for what they are- which is just bursts of psychic energy that exist in our head, & this is one of our biggest error. As a result we mindlessly act out our thoughts which usually ends up badly. Hmmm.... sounds familiar doesn't it? No wonder his books sell so well! He practically sums up every human on Earth ....lol...

He went on to say the ego is never ever contented. No matter how much money we have, how may beautiful things we own, how good our jobs are, it's never enough for the ego. Talking about me Mr Tolle?  ....lol... I just had an increment & promotion, & I am not satisfied at all. I was thinking they should have given me more ! WOW!

Another thing about this ego is, it loves comparison. We end up comparing our self to everyone we know & even those we don't know, & in all areas: wealth , looks & social status just to name a few.

Ego also loves drama. By reliving old resentments through compulsive thoughts, it keeps our discontentment very much alive. Besides the obsession about the past, it's very much actively thinking & fantasizing about the future as well. Thus leaving nothing for the present.

Tolle stresses that the present moment is all we have. We experienced everything in our past through the present moment & we will experience everything in the future the same way.

WOW... he's like talking about me. I'm a rather impatient person. I like to do things fast, I missed out on many things because of that. I am also guilty of being impatient with people, as a result, I might come off as seeming rude at times. Sigh....

Anyway, the interesting part of the book is where he claims that being in the present moment slow down the aging process & made the 'molecular structure' of the body 'less dense'. Because thoughts have their own range of frequencies, with negative thoughts at the lower end of the scale & positive thoughts at the higher end. Well are you convince yet?
Well I am, I'm thinking of signing up for a meditation class soon. Got to stay in the present moment NOW !!!!

A happy life vs a perfect life

What do you think of this?
But isn't a happy life perfect?

My friend said NO.
She said: A perfect life is more than just being happy, you need to have tons of money, famous, very healthy, very intelligent, Have glamorous figure & face & skin, great career, perfect spouse & kids!
Wow!!!

Would you let your boyfriend wear Rompers or would you break up with him if he wears it?

Would you let your boyfriend wear this or would you break up with him if he wears it?

Just recently, RompHim rompers for men debuted online, and there are a lot of mixed responses.
Designed by LA-based brand Hologram City, the shorts come in many different colors, including pink, blue, green, purple, and yellow. They’re see through and made of all lace fabric, plus you can get a matching top to match them as well!

From all the responses, I don't see it becoming a trend ....lol...

Willie, the famous yorkie

My friend Tyra has a Yorkshire terrier 'BoBo'. Loved her to death, yesterday was her grooming day. She ask me what kind of 'style' should she go for. I was like ....WHAT ? I don't know, I don't have a dog not even a pet fish. Anyway she sms me this :

Me: WOW !!!! that's BoBo?
Tyra: No that's not BoBo, it's Willie, the famous yorkie with the gorgeous hair!
Me: Isn't that like pretty intense?
Tyra: It's beautiful !
Me: Willie is a boy right? and with this hair?
Tyra: that's what I thought, but it'll be perfect for BoBo!

Long story short, the groomer was not impressed either. She said ya... it's cute for a photo shot but not practical. Tyra was quite disappointed. And I was happy for BoBo. I wouldn't want to look like a crazy pup either ....lol...