Leaving the boyfriend, the truth finally !

Since I helped my friend moved out from her boy friend's place while he was away last month, lots had happened. When he came back he was shocked to find her things gone. She didn't return his calls , so he called me (me being her buddy) . I told him the truth , which was, I didn't know what the hell was happening as well. I also own up that I was the one who helped her moved , not some strange guy- I hope that makes him feel better.

He has been calling & texting me, as if I know the answer. Well I'm curious too, so I ask her. What went wrong. We met up for dinner last night. She said there were things she think it's time to explain, she needed to unburden herself & I thought , oh here we go, she's going to get it off her chest & dump in on mine! GREAT ..... It felt like she's holding on to my hand like she had fallen into quicksand & I was the one pulling her out.

So... what was it? Apparently she had been going through his things, while he was away. He had about 5 credit cards from different banks, all max out & he's only paying the minimum payment for each card per month. He now owe almost $40K in credit card bills !!!!! Also he has not pay his rental for his posh apartment for more then 3 months already (rental is $4,500- per month). The landlord has sent him a lawyer's letter to chase for the money.

WOW.... she looked at me & all I could think of is, thank goodness she has the sense to move out before it's too late! Has he ask money from her? No she said. But we figured it wont be long if she stays on. But what happened to him? She don't know. And i agree it might be better she don't ask. What's the point right?
She suspect it's gambling !!!
Me too!

How we wish this would happen right? But ....